Goodness me I didn't realise this would arise so much comment!
Sorry Helen, I didn't mean to start a huge discussion, I was just wondering about your choice of words (I would have said it differently, but then I'm not a native speaker, so my English is far from perfect). Maybe next time I'll think before I post... or just shut up!
(And NO, Nicky, I was NOT suggesting ANYTHING with my question. After all, I am female and we're not the ones being said to have one-track minds.)